It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.
It is important to understand yourself and what is making you feel the way you feel
"The key problem I encounter working with wounded, depressed, and unhappy people is a lack of connection…starting from a disconnection from themselves and then with others. This is why love often becomes so distorted and destructive. When people experience a disconnection from themselves, they feel it but do not realize the problem."
Try not to completely disconnect. Try to understand it, what is it, why is it. When you understand yourself,you can understand others. When you begin to understand others, you gain more clarity within yourself.